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Astrological Compatibility: The Astrology of Relationship Component III: Synastry - Soulmates or Not?

As I stated in Part II of my "Astrological Compatibility: The A taurus and capricorn of Relationship" series, the planets in astrology represent basic forces or requirements that we all seek to express in our lives. The relative ease or tension among planets in our very own chart and planets in our partner's chart determines how we will express these uncomplicated requirements from the relationship. Using the technique of synastry we can learn where our energies flow the smoothest and exactly where there are going to be challenges towards natural expression of our energies.

To illustrate how synastry works in a genuine life relationship I've included a diagram of Elise and Tom's astrological charts. What we'll do is go via each in the very own planets and see how the planetary energies jobs out in their relationship and therefore how well they are able to balance these energies to have their individual needs met.

Elise and Tom (not their true names, of course) have been living together for about 30 years. Their relationship is an intriguing illustration simply because in many ways they're extremely various but yet they've accepted those differences and have created it jobs for your relationship.

Planet:---Elise:Tom

Sun:---Aries--Capricorn

Moon:-Libra--Taurus

Mercury:--PiscesSagittarius

Venus:Aries--Sagittarius

Mars:--TaurusLibra

Jupiter:---TaurusAries

The Sun in an astrological chart represents our simple expression of our individuality and in this case our couple is very different. Her Aries Sun is quite outgoing and bubbly while his Capricorn Sun tends to be somewhat conservative and stodgy. She's a lot more interested in late evenings out with close friends and he's a lot more interested in retiring to bed early. Either of these issues could be disastrous for several relationships but they work it out so both get what they need.

The Moon relates to our emotional conditioning and inside a relationship includes a lot to accomplish with our routine and how we like things being done. In Elise and Tom's situation each Moon signs (Libra and Taurus) are ruled by the world Venus. This gives a basic compatibility among the 2 of them about how they like their environment to be. Due to the fact Venus is the globe of adore and harmony they both like their residence to be visually aesthetic and strive to "make peace" with every other.

When we speak of Mercury, the "winged messenger", we believe of communication and in this area our couple has greater challenges. Her Mercury in Pisces tends to become far more emotionally oriented and comfortable in that realm even though his Mercury in Sagittarius is far more jovial (like the mythological trickster) and tends to would like to hold items light and not "get heavy". Obviously in a relationship communication is an area of prime importance and this issue undoubtedly has been challenging for them.

Now Venus in their charts works pretty well! Both have Venus in fire signs so they've often been really "hot" for every other, so to speak. Another aspect that contributes to what I would call "animal magnetism" between the a couple of of them is their Moon/Mars inter-aspects. Mars, of course represents the desire we have to assert ourselves as well as the Moon represents our need to be nurtured and to nurture others. As you are able to see from Tom and Elise's charts, his Moon is in the same sign as her Mars and her Moon is inside the exact same sign as his Mars. This cross-compatibility in between these 2 planets speaks of an quite powerful needs to be physically nurtured by a partner and they fit the bill for each other!

The Globe Jupiter represents our need to expand our sense of ourselves and our self-imposed limitations. In Elise and Tom's charts they have particularly strong Jupiter aspects. In several charts even if couples have other stressful aspects, sure Jupiter aspect will over make up for that. As it is possible to see, Elise's Sun in Aries is inside the same sign as Tom's Jupiter and Tom's Sun in Capricorn is inside the same element (earth) as Elise's Jupiter. What this methods is that over all else each of them supports another in expanding their sense of who they are able to be.

This support also shows up in their Moon/Jupiter aspects. While Elise's Moon in Aries is opposite (180 degrees apart) from Tom's Jupiter, Tom's Moon is within the exact same sign as Elise's Jupiter. What this means is that underlying the relationship is really a deep commitment to supporting every other emotionally so that although it can be harder for them to discuss emotions intellectually (Mercury) there is a deep and abiding adore for each other's emotional growth.

Of course this can be just a brief contemplate the synastry or inter-relationship of Tom and Elise's charts. Additional could possibly be said, but I believe the main issue here is that there is so significantly we can find out about relationships from the lens of libra taurus compatibility, not just our relationships with a significant other but with co-workers, friends, partners, and even our individual family members. For myself, understanding the "astrological dynamics" of my family and crucial others has provided not only many insight but also plenty of acceptance.